What would You Do If I Die ?
The Taiwanese match making show 非常男女 on last nite has this question to ask its participants : 如果我死了, 你会怎么办?
One of the male participants answered "If you die, I will brace up, be strong and carry on with living".
The old bf once told advised me to look for another guy should he ever die.
There are some love interests who came along but they are either too old, too selfish or simply too unappealing.
I'd rather remain single than to just grab any Tom, Dick or Harry to ease my loneliness.
But I guess for most men, their initial thoughts would be to find another woman as soon as possible to "forget the pain" of losing his loved one.
Face it ! Men and women are different. Women love their men with all their hearts and mind but men can love their women for limited periods only. Coz there are always more widowers than widows who remarry. Some men even remarry within months or a year after their poor girlfriends or wives passed on.
Why ? Why ? Tell me why ?
One of the male participants answered "If you die, I will brace up, be strong and carry on with living".
The old bf once told advised me to look for another guy should he ever die.
There are some love interests who came along but they are either too old, too selfish or simply too unappealing.
I'd rather remain single than to just grab any Tom, Dick or Harry to ease my loneliness.
But I guess for most men, their initial thoughts would be to find another woman as soon as possible to "forget the pain" of losing his loved one.
Face it ! Men and women are different. Women love their men with all their hearts and mind but men can love their women for limited periods only. Coz there are always more widowers than widows who remarry. Some men even remarry within months or a year after their poor girlfriends or wives passed on.
Why ? Why ? Tell me why ?
posted by lonelychinesegal at
8/29/2005 11:56:00 PM
6 Comments:
i guess each and everyone's thinking is different.
sometimes this kinda thing cannot be put into comparison.
By
Hermit, at 30 August, 2005 01:57
ya...but i still think women can't forget their loved ones more than fickle minded men.
lol
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lonelychinesegal, at 30 August, 2005 22:34
I think what is said is quite true. I would rather stay single than be with someone I don't really like just for the sake of being together.
And as for the differences between men and women, I dunno. I guess you can't blame a man if he remarries after a passing of a wife. It's not because I'm a guy I said that but would you stay single forever should (touchwood) your better half met a mishap?
By
Jayaxe, at 30 August, 2005 23:25
Do you believe in fate? I do now.. I believe in love too... I hope u too.. It hurts a lot, it still will... but there is always hope..
When the time is right..
By
Ris, at 30 August, 2005 23:59
I would sure stay single if my spouse leave before me.
By
thquah, at 03 September, 2005 10:09
i will find another if my partner do pass away.
she's the one who's dead, not me.
By
Resurrection Fern, at 19 September, 2005 03:38
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