lonely chinese gal

Wednesday, July 27, 2005

哪个星座女生最易嫁给有钱人?

Courtesy from this webby : http://forum.cheang.net/showthread.php?t=126

白羊座
可能性:★★
因为天生好动,又喜欢闯荡江湖,白羊女生没什么富贵命,她们比较喜欢当女强人和男人一较高下。

金牛座
可能性:★★★★★★
嫁鸡随鸡,虽然有金牛女生嫁了穷小子,一起努力打拼。但是对金钱兴趣度不小的金牛女生选择当有钱太太的可能 性真的很高。

双子座
可能性:★★★★
聪明伶俐讨人喜欢的双子女生,嫁入豪门当少奶奶的几率不小。交际手腕高明的她们从公婆到亲戚都能整治得服服 帖帖。

巨蟹座
可能性:★★★
兼具中国妇女温良恭俭等种种美德的巨蟹座,颇能讨婆家长辈欢心,嫁入豪门的几率不小,但是不打扮的她很容易 从少奶奶变成黄脸婆。

狮子座
可能性:★★★★★
狮子座女生最有富贵命,她们的美艳和爽快常让许多纨绔子弟动心,只不过要真的把狮子座美女娶进家门还非得有 足够的本事和银行存款呢!

处女座
可能性:★★
劳碌命的处女座女生比较偏爱能够一起奋斗的人,有钱人的奢华习性她们看不惯,就算真有福气当上少奶奶,也是 劳碌少奶奶而不是好命少奶奶。

天秤座
可能性:★★★★★
天秤座和狮子座的女生一样,都很有少奶奶命,就算没有找到有钱老公,在自己家里也是茶来伸手饭来张口,嫁入 豪门后,更是有人好生伺候。

天蝎座
可能性:★★★★
天蝎女生不会因为当上少奶奶而满足,她喜欢长期投资,更喜欢自己是有旺夫运的女人,就算当了少奶奶也是帮着 夫家忙来忙去的,或是开创自己的事业。

射手座
可能性:★
最怕被人绑死的射手女生很少愿意当有钱太太,万一真的遇到了,婚前也绝对说好各管各的,就怕公公婆婆管太多 最后闹得家庭失和。

摩羯座
可能性:★★★★
摩羯座女生的小家碧玉气质很难会吸引富家公子的眼光,当少奶奶的几率不高。如果让治家手段高明的她们当上了 少奶奶,女佣、司机和厨娘就有可能要吃苦头了。

水瓶座
可能性:★★
少奶奶?这个名词对水瓶女生来说早在18世纪末就该消失了,虽然当少奶奶不错,但嫁个有钱少爷,并不代表她 就要扮演红楼梦里的王熙凤或薛宝钗,她们宁可自由自在地生活呢!

双鱼座
可能性:★★★★
双鱼座女生是爱情至上者,如果对方是富家公子,她也不反对。凭着温柔体贴当上好命少奶奶的双鱼座女生不算少 ,而且喜欢扮演小女人的双鱼座女生也乐得轻松,凡事都交给老公去处理。

So which one do you gals belong to ? Is this true to a certain extent ?

Saved some money today !

Today is Wednesday aka mid-week aka 4D day.

Luckily I did not buy 4D today because, as usual, my favourite 4D numbers never came out today. I have yet to strike any 4D since this year, so sway :( , no luck at all.

There was no dinner at home tonite and being the lazy and thrifty me, I decided to whip up a simple home-cooked mushroom porridge for myself.

It was not a difficult job at all.

I just washed and boiled some rice in a pot. Then, I added some instant mushroom soup mix into the porridge ! Fast and easy to eat !


Yours truly,

little miss sacred

Sunday, July 24, 2005

What is Hell Money ??

Been surfing the internet for a while on this boring Sunday evening and found out these particular webbies that are pretty informative :

http://www.luckymojo.com/hellmoney.html

http://www.anthro.uci.edu/html/Programs/Anthro_Money/GhostMoney.htm

Friday, July 22, 2005

The Ring(s)

Last nite, I received a missed private call.

When I got home at 10.30pm the same nite, my mum told me my so-called old bf's mum called us at home. And my mum told her that I had left my old job and that my dad had gone to paradise .... ....

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I was bathing at 8 plus when she called my hp (again). I swear I do not know who called me as it was a private call. But somehow, I suspected it was her. Ten minutes later, she smsed me, asking me how's life and so on. I then realised that I had no choice but to reply her. And almost immediately after my reply to her, my hp rang.

It was her.

She was actually a very nice, motherly lady. However, it is not the same anymore after her son left me. I couldn't put myself to treat her as per normal, or as good as before. However, I still gave her her due respects and even gave her some money and bought her a Mother's Day cake this year, along with some other things. But, no matter what, I am still not her daughter, not her own flesh and blood.

It's a different feeling when relationships dun turn out fine, even for would-be-in-laws. She almost became my mother-in-law. I am not an ingrate but... how should I put it ?? Unhappy stuff also happened between some of her family members and myself and I do not wish to indivulge anymore updates in my life to her anymore ! Becoz I know that she will broadcast to ALL her family members and gossip about me and my mother. I dun like it. Period.
Every time she calls me, she'll ask how am I and advises me to get to know more friends. I can't imagine how she'd feel or tell her family should I have a new boyfriend. I guess I better not tell her. Mothers will surely side their own children no matter what lah. I dun want to risk being labelled as a "woman who changes heart fast". I mean, even the most good-natured person would also feel this way right ??

Or maybe, she knows that I am a very lonely gal. First of all, I had lost my soulmate and then my father. Most of my good friends have their own lives to lead as well. I dun want to rely on other people often and disrupt their lives. I have to learn to lead a hermit's life for the time being.

She also said she was sorry to hear about my late father's demise and mentioned on why I did not inform her earlier. I explained to her that, firstly, he passed away suddenly overseas and 2ndly, I did not tell many people about his death. Besides, what could the others do for me ? She could not help me much and I am troubled enuff. I didn't want to trouble her too.

Dunno why but a pang of sadness engulfed me when she spoke to me. I never felt worse whenever she called me. Perhaps she reminded me too much of D... ...

I am now a totally cursed and down-on-my-luck freak and I hate the life I am leading now. I was still managably happy 1 year plus ago..... I doubt no one except my mother would be devastated should I leave this sad, cruel world. Every day, different people die. And nobody winks an eye to that fact. If there is such a thing called "previous life" and had I been a real baddie then, I should have repaid for my sins in this life. My current life's messy and pretty bad already. Dear God, just take me and not my loved ones anymore ! Take me to repay my debts owed in my past life to atone for my sins. Dun torture me anymore and any further. I am but a helpless and lonely gal who cannot see the light out of the darkness in her deep pit ! Why is life so cruel to me at my age ??

Enough of my rambling... I think I feel slightly better, airing out my thoughts.

I am a sicko and I do not know whether I could still take anymore setbacks in my life. I may just say sayonara should any other misfortune strikes ... ...

Till then !

Yours truly,

little miss sacred

Tuesday, July 19, 2005

My 1st day at my New Job

In a nutshell, it was fine.

Not much restrictions, no big boss to scrutinise me every now and then. Cool ! Can still drink hot tea with milk, hot water, hot whatevers and eat FREE, nice creamy banana cake in the office while working ! This is a "privilege" I dun really have in my old office 99% of ALL times.

I was supposed to start work at 9am. I reached the office at 0850hr and realised that I was the 1st to arrive ! Nobody's at the office and it's locked ! Had to wait patiently outside the lift lobby but luckily, there are some comfy seats with aircon there too.

At close to nine, a middle-aged man with round glasses came and let me into the office after I introduced myself as the "new girl". He didn't tell me about himself though and looked a bit stern. Later, I heard from my manager that he is not the boss but the company's accountant.

Must be some big shot also, if not, how come got the keys to the office ??

Anyway, I was brought round the entire office and got to know most of my new colleagues. Most seemed friendly and approachable. Majority of them, I should say 96%, are mature females with the 4 other males I know in the office are also mature and should-be married men. Hmmm.... but all looked like nice folks :) I try not to provoke anyone of them since I am the newbie and seeming like one of the youngest there, at the moment.

The work i was taugh so far is interesting, mostly statistical work and PC-based.

I still have more to learn within these 2 weeks of training !


Yours truly,

little miss sacred

Monday, July 18, 2005

Staying Alone would be a Good Idea !

How I wish I could stay alone in an apartment !

Just a 2-room small and cosy one will do.

Like those HK / Japanese / Korean / Taiwanese / Western yuppie shows who telecast their youths living alone in a modernised flat or condo !

There would be no naggings and quarrelling in the house and I could invite close friends over anytime I liked. Peace and serenity then could be achieved.

I could design a detachable walk-in wardrobe as big a bedroom and safely store all my accessories, clothes and shoes in it ! I guess every lady dreams of a wardrobe as upmarket as a boutique.

Sigh... if only my monthly cheque writes a comfortable 4-digit or an impressive 5 digit figure and I would be able to realise this fantasy of mine.


Yours truly,

little miss sacred

Praised by a Buddhist Priest / Monk !

We were at Bright Hill Temple for one of my late dad's few chanting / prayer session at 2pm.

The Buddhist priest /monk who was supposed to chant for my dad saw me and told my mum that I am a very filial daughter as he had seen me paying my respects to my father every day in the temple for the past few weeks.

He then gave me a Buddhist Sutra and advised me to read / chant it to accumulate merits for my late father. We were also told to be vegetarians within 49 days of mourning.

I feel very happy because I actually got "commended" by a Buddhist monk for the VERY FIRST in my entire life !

I feel like I have accumulated 1001 merits in this lifetime of mine !!! Really !


With love,

little miss sacred

Just 1 more day

Oh gosh ! I can't imagine that I have to start work tomorrow after all these few weeks of "idling mode" , free from all the hustle and bustle of normal office hours' working life.

Actually, I am supposed to start on to my new job today, but as unexpected things happened, I requested to commerce work a day later. Do you guys think my new boss will think otherwise ?

I also smsed my new manager for 2 more days of leave, separately, for my late dad's 49th day and 100th day death prayers.

Dunno what the bosses will think ?

Anyway, I guess I have no choice but to continue working as per usual and see how the new job goes. Jobs can always be replaced but some things cannot be missed !


Yours truly,

little miss sacred

Saturday, July 16, 2005

Paper Stuff I bought for Dad

This is a so-called paper box "closet" or "long" ( a local dialect slang for box or closet) which the Chinese normally buy for putting all their paper offerings inside for easier burning.

I bought 2 of these "longs" to store a lot of the many paper items I had bought continuously over the past few days for dad.

There are ... ...

a plasma (flat-screen) TV set with remote control (!),

a laptop (!),


an "electrical" fan (!),

a set of chopping board, chopper, cooking pot, wok and other utensils (!) ,

a set of toothbrush & paste etc, and a set of shaver with batteries & shaving cream


3 sets of shirts and pants, a pack of drinks and a pack of instant noodles; all made of paper of coz,


an old fashioned radio set,


a set of perfumes and colognes,

an over view of all the above mentioned items,



Oops ! I left out 2 items namely the 2 sets of gold & silver bars and a pair of dark blue slippers


a set of 10,000 dollar notes,


a set of paper cloth,


a set of torch and batteries (!),


4 sets of dentures and toothpaste & brushes,


4 sets of jewellery, bangles, necklaces, watches, cosmetics and etc


a set of male toiletries and hair dryer,


a black briefcase and a pair of men's shoes

a set of shoe polish,




some casual shirts and smart ones as well,



splendid seafood plus a pot of Buddha jumps over the wall (!),

another set of utensils,


last but not least, a passport, credit card, train and air tickets !

Aren't all these manufacturers amazing ???

Thursday, July 14, 2005

What a Way to Spend my Days Before My New Job

I have been going to Bright Hill's Temple regularly, though not faithfully or daily since last, last Saturday.

I have also been to Party World KTV, alone, last Friday and sang my lungs out from 1515hr to 1710hr.

Damn, I thought I would just spend SGD10 or below but I ended up paying SGD18.80 ! My god ! I thought I had the 4-hours' free KTV room coupons mah !

Everyday, my life passes by in a swift.

Wake up at 10 plus, wash up, eat, read newspapers, watch the Channel 8 repeated HK drama serial "Lights of a Million Hope", buy some food and offerings for my late dad, bathe, prepare to go to Bright Hill Temple, hunt for more paper offerings (eg paper radio, paper clothes, paper torches and batteries, paper whatevers...), come back home, bathe, have dinner, watch TV from 1900hr to 2300hr, watch DVD till the wee hours of the morning....

This had been my almost-daily routine for the past week.

Yes, I have no life.

Plans of going aboard for a happy holiday were abolished.

The all-time resolution of mine to start a healthy regime by jogging every morning or going to the gym failed too.

Concerned friends have sent their condolences and initiated meetings but there were days or nights whereby my family and I have to pay our respects to my late dad either at home of at Bright Hill's, hence, I had to prioritise. Sorry, my dear friends. However, I think I am free these last few "carefree" days; I have to make some time out for myself and my good friends coz I will be starting my new job next Tuesday.

However, I might spend more time in town when I start work coz my new office is in town !

A new change from my old workplace, off in a suburban area !

What's in store for me in the remaining months ahead , I wonder ?

More tragedies or otherwise ?


Yours truly,

little miss sacred

Wednesday, July 13, 2005

My Trip in HCM City

I suddenly remembered that I forget about the pictures I had taken while in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam late last month, so here they are ...


This is where the Singapore Consulate (aka Embassy) is located, in Saigon Centre

Below are some HCM City's sightings




There are more motorcycles than motorcars and pedestrains on the roads in this country !



My late dad's last meal before we sent him off to be cremated
My late dad's fav ice coffee




Luckily I brought along this lotus shaped thingy to be cremated together with my dad coz it is not available in HCM City
All these joss paper are slightly different from those in Singapore and are in a smaller version



Compare and contrast



 
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